Five Minute Friday: Welcome

Welcome is pretty much defined as a kind greeting to one whose arrival gives pleasure (according to dictionary.com).  So basically, you’re greeted kindly because someone is excited that you’ve arrived.  Their happy that you’re here; that you’ve entered a room, their home, their heart.  It’s not a passing wave, but an actual effort of greeting is made and purposely done with kindness because your arrival is a pleasant thing for them.

There’s some serious impact to this welcoming business.  Right now, I’m striving to treat everyone kindly.  Maybe one day, sooner rather than later I hope, I’d actually find pleasure at nearly everyone’s arrival in my life.  How much different my day would go if I would warmly greet everyone who came across my path, friend or stranger.  How much of an impact would that make on their day?

Next, I need to check myself.  Does my arrival pleasant to others?  Do they shun me or welcome me when I enter a room?  Do they simply glance at me in their doorway and never give me a second thought?  Do they wish that I disappear as quickly as I arrived, never to darken their doorsteps again?  I hope and pray that I will be welcomed anywhere I go.  It doesn’t mean that I’m looking to settle into everyone’s lives.  Nor am I expecting to be granted free access anytime I choose.  What I certainly don’t want is for people to cringe when they see me coming…

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The cool thing about these five minute posts is that I never know where I’m going to end up.  I barely even know where I’m starting oftentimes.  It is neat to see the end result though, and it feels like such a liberating accomplishment.  Your turn to give it a try.  The “rules” (it’s all honour system here anyways) are very simple:

1)  Write for 5 minutes straight, throwing all editing to the wind.
2)  Link up by clicking the button below.
3)  Read a few posts of someone who linked up before you.  Try to leave a comment, if you’d like.

  • http://www.blogger.com/profile/05860686533464738932 Caroline

    Oh yes. It can be so hard to intentionally welcome ALL, but you are right that it is so important.

  • http://gatebeautiful.ca/ Bekka

    Found you via Gypsy Momma :).

    I appreciate the reminder to reflect on how we are welcomed – to remind us to be careful of our attitudes and presentation in order to be sure that people are happy to welcome us.

    I also love how there’s a mystery involved in writing for 5 minutes – you hit the nail on the head with “liberating accomplishment”!